The Cancer Has Gone South

This post is not one I wanted to write. But the necessity for it has been thrust upon me by yet another discussion, which not only contains totally false allegations, but also allegations about totally innocent users, whose only crime is to be my friend. I will address these allegations, point by point. And then on behalf of myself and my friends, I DEMAND an apology on this blog. If it is not given - then you, reader must decide for yourself who is the coward here.
The discussion begins with an allusion to a war of attrition. It goes on to talk about how the poster, back in November hunted cheaters on site and reported them. Then the poster talks about how he recruited others users to hunt cheaters. The poster is talking about the mlpd here. The poster then goes on to say that "some of those cheaters were overzealous and found themselves booted" (from the site? - that is not made clear). Other cheaters were "misunderstood and made some people unhappy." Well that is certainly an understatement. The mlpd members who 'made some people unhappy', did so because they were openly abusive to innocent members on threads where the mlpd had nothing but vitriol to contribute. I was one of the users at the time who openly challenged their abuse. The poster then goes on to say that the resistance to cheater hunting made it impossible to hunt cheaters any more. This is such a joke. Neither I nor anyone else had any kind of problem with people - whomever they were - hunting cheaters. What we had a problem with, was the verbal abuse and flaming that the mlpd were doing to innocent users. When one of the mlpd posted a comment like "...well if you kept your legs closed you c*nt, you wouldn't have so many kids...", of course I had something to say. Wouldn't you? This is open and ugly abuse and several members of the mlpd were very good at using this kind of language and making this kind of comment. I found it disgusting and said so. They hid behind their right to 'free speech'! Reporting this kind of abuse got comments deleted from threads, but did NOTHING to stop the abuse. It did nothing to have the most vile members of the mlpd banned by admin for guideline violations. And that's when I decided to approach the problem another way. Other friends on site at the time who had been on the receiving end of the mlpd members abuse, agreed that this abuse on site had to stop and began sending me pages from mylotbittes, a site I knew nothing about until I started getting pages of the mlpd members convos from it. I gathered them together and forwarded them to admin. Sadly - the only thing that changed was that mlpd went on strike and I left the site for awhile. The poster now says that I continued my war against them until I was banned. This is not true. After a month or so of being away I returned to the site and stayed away from the lot of them. The worst foul mouth had lost his ability to post and things had quieted down on site. The mylot wars were over and the material submitted to admin. For me - that was the end of it. Unbeknownst to me, however, a former friend had betrayed our relationship and now it was the members of the mlpd who were 'working behind the scenes' to get me banned. The poster says that my friends were so upset with me (?, names please!) about what I said about the mlpd that that is why 'they' were no longer my friends. Now that doesn't make sense. Unless these 'friends' were advocates of the kind of abuse that went on on site - why would they be upset with me for voicing my feelings about it? If they choose to betray me, how is that ME throwing THEM away? How funny that the only 'friends' this allegation can apply to is the friend and her husband who betrayed my friendship with them. So I really would like to know who all these friends were that I used and 'threw' away. Again I say - names please! I have never asked anyone to 'pay for my friendship' - I don't have to. People were coming to me and volunteering information. People were coming to me and asking questions. I never had to 'solicit' anyone! This allegation is so patently false it is ridiculous. The poster then goes on to bash my blog and tries to turn my reporting of the activities on mylot and mylotbites as things that I am responsible for. What a joke! And how stupid to make such an assertion when the very existence of the discussion in question puts the lie to it. I reported openly - not behind closed doors on some site - the abuses the poster and friends have been responsible for, and I'M the one doing it? The logic to this arguement defies - well - logic! The poster then goes on to say that I have accused him of cyber stalking, malicious emails etc. Read the blog people! I have accused him of NO SUCH thing. It is true that I have been getting malicious emails and phone calls. But I have not accused this poster either here or in private emails to friends of this. Quite the leap into accusation there. This poster thinks he's the focus of my fight against internet cancers. LOLOL...he is merely one little cell. The poster then goes on to say that I am poisening peoples minds on mylot and people are falling away from the site because of me. How arrogant of him to make such a statement. Does it not occur to him and his friends, that the topics they post and talk together on are leaving clues to anyone who can read, just how true my blog entries are and that if people are leaving the site it is because of the behaviour of this poster and his friends - not because of me. LOL - I would really like to know how I can have so much influence over so many people when I can't post on site and don't have the email addresses of every user there that is leaving. Yes, people read my blog - but do you really think they don't have the ability to see the evidence of my blog's assertions for themselves and therefore make up their own minds? I have pointed out a very real problem. I have made my feelings about it clear. But I do not have an "entourage" and am not conducting cult like activities. My goodness, if I could do that, I would have mesmerized the mlpd a long time ago and brought them over to MY side! lolol... The poster also says I left threatening messages on his shoutbox on site. NEWS FLASH - I dropped in and said hello, used some humour and of course, they all put a negative connotation of my bon mots and the accusations began to fly. Then on that shoutbox and another, someone else using my nickname began leaving comments. Today I got proof that those comments did not originate from my computer. The poster has since had those comments removed by admin. The poster then goes on to say that one user on the site is posting things at MY instruction! Now THAT really takes the cake of false allegations! A long time member of the site is now so mesmerized by my charisma (lol) that she is no longer capable of thinking for herself? LOLOLOL...falling off my couch again at THAT one! The poster then goes on to say that he and his friends are not guilty of anything and users only need to read their discussions and comments to see that! Really? Then why THIS discussion? Why post discussions about any of this at all? Why continue to 'poke the dog'? lol Why do the responses on discussion like this smack of meaness and more and more false allegations against Fifty and her friends? If you are so innocent then why are users questioning you? Why are users leaving? Surely one little me can't be that powerful!!!!!! The poster then goes on to promote his goodness by talking about his own website. I've checked that website - good premise, but doesn't prove a thing about his goodness on mylot! LOLOL....
The resulting comments posted by his friends on this discussion prove my point about their inability to recognize the truth and their meaness. My friends and I are called a VD because I have referred to their behaviour as a cancer on the net - not the ONLY one - just a kind that I find particularly nasty. I am accused of being obsessed, bitter and not having a life. I'm a writer and these people are now giving me such good copy that I can't NOT write about them. But at least I do it in the open. That they choose to get so twisted about the truth is their problem, and as long as they continue to abuse and lie, I have decided that I will continue to answer them point by point.
I am stating my opinion and rebutting their lies. The discussion I have just rebutted is black and white proof that THEY are the ones trying to poisen people's minds. For this poster to say he couldn't write a discussion this past weekend about ADD because he was consoling another one of my victims is the height of bullsh*t! Again - name please! How utterly foolish. I was willing to let all this nonsense go several times. Discussions like this make it impossible now that they are bringing innocents into the mix. My tag line for my blog says, "I am not a victim and I will not allow anyone who touches my life to be one either". This poster and friends are now trying to make 'victims' not only of my friends, but other innocent users on site. So I will continue to post about their abuses until they stop, or "take that short blue bus to banned camp" themselves!