Thoughts on the He/She Dragon

I was interested to find a comment from the he/she Dragon of mylot on my last blog entry. I wasn't sure (one never is) whether it was Steph or Bird who wrote the nasty little comment I blogged about, but Steph, bless her underhanded little heart cleared that up for me - and many others I'm sure. So she is still posting on mylot under her husband's name. Not legal for anyone else according to guidelines, but I guess being on the 'inside' now gives her certain priviledges. Lucky her! Just wish if she had nothing to fear from admin, that she would have the courage to identify herself. I know others who feel the same way. But then, the modis operendi of such people is to abuse and confuse.
Anyway - reading the spiteful little comments she left on a couple of my blog entries made something very clear to me. And sadly has brought out the worst in me.
What Steph and Bird did was unforgiveable, and crossed lines of common decency on many levels. They will never admit that - they will always blame me, and that's ok. But the fact remains that both of them DID step over those lines and many people, not just me, felt the fall out from it. I started this blog to identify and expose this kind of behaviour, but I now realize that that rationale was simply a mask of my true feelings and the real object of my deep rooted sense of betrayal and anger lies squarely at the feet of Steph and Bird. That they have found their 'true home' with other like minded 'cancers' was inevitable really, and I have had fun with the others. But it is time to stop involving them in my anger against Steph and Bird.
I will not apologize for anything I have said in these blog entries, or for my attitude against abusive and narrowminded thinking and expression. Unless they continue to make false and inflammatory statements, discussions, or topics about me that need addressing, I will leave them alone. You have my word on that, and though it won't mean anything to them, it does mean something to me and many others.
As for Steph and Bird - My anger will be directed against them as it should always have been, and though I would never stoop to their level of abuse and nastiness, I will no longer be polite or use humour. I will express exactly how I feel and if it sounds harsh - tough! They have brought this on themselves and I'm tired of their crap, their lies, their insinuations and their attempts to sabatoge my life. They may choose to believe whatever they wish about me, but I have yet to see them answer anything I've refuted, meet any challenge I've given, or prove to anyone that they deserve any consideration at all - except their 'dark side' friends who are of no account to me anyway. And I completely understand that the feeling is mutual.


You told Max, Steph that you thought it may be difficult to get to me. Trust me, you don't really want to try and if you do, you'll have no one to blame but yourself. So my best advice is to just leave off, drop me from your memory bank, stop trying to keep tabs on me, and get on with your sad little life. And fyi - no matter how you read this - there are NO threats here. I will not bother with you, but I won't back down either if you bring your particular brand of crap to my attention - which is what I meant when I said "you don't really want to try...".
Whew! I feel better now that I've finally put my anger where it belongs. I sincerely hope that this will be end of it, that you will leave my friends alone, me alone and just grow up and out of all of our lives.

UPDATE: This was comment sent to me from mylot made by Dragon. AGAIN, got his facts wrong as he says:
Quote:


"Amazing, simply amazing. I can't believe she thinks my wife gave her a link to something to get back at you. I don't know whether to laugh or vomit anymore. This has just gotten so old. "

Now here is what he is referring to and what was really said - and these quotes are from my blog itself so you can check them out:


whoeveryouwanttothinkiam said...
Since it bothers you so much,here's another post about you.http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1353249.aspx?p=2FYI no one has badmouthed you until you started on Max again.
December 18, 2007 10:24 AM
itsreallymefifty said...
whoeveryouwant... - Well thanks for the link. I'll add you to my folder of people who send me links!

So as you can see, a link was definitely given to me from one of Max's friends hiding under a phony name, but I DID NOT say anywhere that it was Steph who sent it. In fact I gave the credit to 'whoeveryouwanttothinkiam'. THEN I went on to quote the He/She Dragon as that blog entry WAS about them. But hey, if Bird wants to lay it Steph's feet by saying I said it was Steph - well then I can only conclude his knickers are in a twist because it WAS his wife posting under that name. LOL So I can understand why he's feeling 'sick'! LOL