This is going to be my last entry on this blog.
Edit Insert For Clarification: I posted that I would delete the entry before this, NOT the entire blog. But the responses on that entry are getting too funny and absurd to remove. I will also not be deleting this entry. The blog as it stands now with the still posted entries will remain. The entries I have removed are not to hide anything, (which is stupid thinking when the cancers here have boasted about having copies! lol) but rather to remove my son's condition from further attack. I was asked to remove any entries that referenced him directly by a senior family member and out of respect I did. It would indicate only TOTAL malignancy on the part of the cancers who post here to deny me that respect.
I started this blog to expose a pattern of behaviour on the net which I had first run across on my lot. Those that exhibit this behaviour caused me to start looking around the net to see if it was a mylot phenom, or if indeed, the Internet world had given rise to a whole new breed of self expression. Sadly, the net was full of what I had encountered on my lot.
Now every writer knows that your best writing comes out of your own experience. So using my experience I wrote about Internet Cancers as evidenced by certain users on my lot. I named them as a warning to new my lot members or other social site users. I classified their particular type of behaviours using the best analogy I knew - which was the use of the word cancer. I dubbed these people cancer cells. There are myriad types of cancers and because no two people are exactly alike, their behaviour varies according to their individuality, but within the analogy, just like lymphoma, melanoma and other classifications are still cancers, these 'cells' were still cancerous in their behaviour, individually and collectively.
I make no apologies for my analogy because there was nothing more fitting to make my point. The behaviour I wanted to illustrate was that of closed minded, insidious, soul destroying, foul and sickening tunnel vision types in activity and expression. Just like cancer. Exactly like cancer. It strikes, it rests, it strikes again and each time around, it's worse. There is no getting away from it once it takes hold. It will come at you out of the blue, it will find a weakness and exploit it, it will make your life a living hell. Anyone who has had to deal with 'real' cancer knows what I mean and can't deny the truth of what I've said. So too with 'virtual' cancer cells of the human behavioural kind,is the scenario the same. So the analogy stands as valid. Those named object - of course they do. Just as 'real' cancer objects to the treatment that kills them. There of course is the argument that cancer caught in time can be cured. But not without radical treatment and for the rest of a former cancer patients life, the threat of it's return remains. There is no getting away from that.
Where people who exhibit cancerous behaviour are concerned, perhaps early childhood intervention would have 'cured' their behavioural patterns which came to fruition in later life, but here on the net, people are for the most part beyond the age of intervention and are therefore confirmed in their behaviour.
I attempted here to put to rest my experience with these people on my lot, to expose them as a warning to others and to get the effect of their sickness out of my own system. They objected. Not, I don't for one minute believe, because of what I said, but more because their behaviour had been recorded and spoken out against and I refused to back down when they retaliated. They objected to being called cancers, totally and relentlessly missing the whole point of the analogy. After my first few posts, I posted about other cancers on the net, and they didn't even blink at those entries because - well they personally weren't front and centre in them. lol Quite a bit of narcissism at work with them there.They will even believe that this entry is entirely about them and them only. They will never see the broader picture. They never have.
After my 'final'banning from my lot in May I didn't return to my lot in the manner these cancer cells delusionaly believe. But I was constantly being sent email after email about certain users there who just couldn't see themselves as responsible for any wrong doing or more importantly, see themselves the way other sane and rational people viewed them. So they continued to carry on and carry on unchecked with their cancerous behaviour towards others as well as me.
Some of them carried their hurt pride directly into my off line life and used and abused my identity and my name. So it was my turn to fight back and set the record straight. When I got back on line (moving and other things had me off the net for quite some time) I determined to meet these cancers post for post. Nothing I have posted here in a negative vein about them has NOT been backed up with quotes from their own mouths. And every comment they have left on this blog has only proven to all readers - EXCEPT THEM - just how true my analogy of them is.
I have not used this blog to keep the world up to date on my day to day life. I have not used it to attack unmercifully the private lives, families or lifestyles of the cancers I've named. But that has not stopped them from attacking me and then demanding that I take down this blog because their net names are on it. LOL (Change your net name then if you don't want people to recognize you in other places). But to vilify me and my family and my life, of which they know none of the details, and to demand that I be the one to provide proof of this and that, when the proof is already before them, is the height of arrogance. I haven't used this blog to demand that THEY disappear from the net,just from my life, and to change their behaviour. I have used this blog to expose their kind of behaviour which is becoming more and more prevalent with other users on the net, and to put a mirror up to them in the hopes that they would be educated enough to do something about the damage they cause and the ugliness that they spread around so freely.
The fight that I have endured here nearly succeeded in bringing me down to their level. But I was not raised, or naturally inclined, to low life thinking and I post this last entry because unlike some, I CAN and have many times, risen above such mind sets.
So to you cancer cells that are and will forever remain wallowing in your own self-righteousness and skewed view of your own realities, I say good luck. As I have often said, Karma gets us all in the end don't you know. But I am no longer interested in being around when it happens to you. I will not post replies to your comments nor will I visit the blog you are sure to start about me. I am moving on and beyond. I trust however, that you will stay true to form and remain exactly where you are in your behaviour and mindset.
Sadly, "evil grows in cracks and holes and lives in peoples minds". In this virtual reality world we live in so much of our time, this kind of evil is rampant. I want no part of it anymore. I want peace in my valley and love in my heart. For those of you who cannot accept that I am capable of such higher thinking - well I believe God is taking notes and it's not up to me to second guess what He decides for you or even me for that matter. But you can bet that your willingness to take the low road rather than the high road is not going unnoticed by anyone except like minded people.
It hurts to think that you will go on to new targets and new victims. But that is the nature of evil and I am only one person, and I have done my bit to stem your tide. It's up to others now to take up the gauntlet of justice where your type of behaviour is concerned. My society doesn't think or live on the level of deliberate misunderstanding, foul language, personal attacks on innocents, or any of your other stocks in trade. I refuse to feed your mania's anymore.
Edit: March 9/08: I have posted that is my last entry. But the 'biters' insist on
abusing posters here and therefore I have decided to delete their comments and will
not be accepting any others. I have walked away from this blog and will not give in to the biters taunting or allow anymore libel of my family, myself or my friends here.
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Friday, February 22, 2008
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Liar, Liar, Pants On Fire! Revenge Cancers
This entry is dedicated to the 'good' people of mylot who are sick and tired of revenge cancers on their site going from post to post spreading lies, making accusations, vilifying and abusing a user who was no part of their fight with me back when they were trashing me and getting me banned from mylot.
Coming4U wasn't even a user on mylot until just a few days before my banning when she/he/it left nasty comments on my threads and then joined the group on SKSouth's crowing thread. So who is this cancer? And why would someone they don't have a personal history with be so important to them that they must spread their disease all over mylot now? And now a 'new' (and I use that term lightly, because I know who this user is) user named 'thepunisher' has shown up today to bolster C4U's nastiness.
I posted an entry on my blog some time ago about the inherent evil in some user names. Well visit mylot folks and look these two up. They have just proven the veracity of that blog entry! LOL
They also have posted on other entries here denying their need to have thier friends 'called in' to support them. Again I say - visit mylot folks and look these two up. They have just proven that position to be a lie.
They keep going on about how it's against the rules to return after a banning. Yet their own friends post about how they have done just that, not once, but many times.
So I guess the rules only apply to mylotters NOT on the friend's lists of the mylot cancers? lol
Thepunisher is a former user. Is that not a violation of the rules? Even if the punisher was never banned - isn't having duplicate accounts against the rules? So no matter what way you cut it, thepunisher is breaking the rules.
Coming4U is just as guilty. Don't the rules say that you can't flame another user - either current or former? Yes they do. I've read them over and over.
I recently deleted certain entries here that referenced my son because the comments from these people were so vile and disgusting that I was asked to do so. So instead of just letting sleeping dogs lie and let everyone get on and over it, Coming4U, and friends took THEIR vendetta to mylot are leaving posts, starting discussions and spreading their hatred all over mylot. And here I thought this kind of behaviour was against the rules? Oh, that's right, not for THEM, just for the rest of you.
Would you want these people on your friends list? If you were the object of such hatred would you be willing to let your kids join such a site without doing everything in your power to protect them and keep out of their way. Why should a perfectly good site like mylot be closed to you and yours, simply because of internet revenge cancers like this? And what's the point of all this now anyway. My son posted essentially a good-bye discussion and instead of just letting him go, he gets accused of not existing, not being who he is, not be ill, of NEVER having posted anything on mylot, and on and on ad infinitum because these revenge cancers are the ones who can't let go and get on with their lives. The sad thing is, it is my son who will suffer most from this because these cowards are trying to get at ME through him. So to them all I say, Liar, Liar Pants on Fire! LOL GROW UP and move on and leave the poor users at mylot alone and out of your imagined problems with me or my son. You are only showing your own sickness and meanness. You are doing nothing to convince anyone of your arguments. That's a dead horse. Please stop beating the poor thing and salvage SOME dignity for yourself and move on. Gezuz Murphy how many times am I going to have set the record straight?
I know!
I know!
As long as new and ugly internet cancer cells keep showing up and dragging me back to the fray.
Coming4U and friends - you should be ashamed of yourselves. As I said to someone recently "Do you kiss your mother with that mouth?" OMG I hope not! lol
Coming4U wasn't even a user on mylot until just a few days before my banning when she/he/it left nasty comments on my threads and then joined the group on SKSouth's crowing thread. So who is this cancer? And why would someone they don't have a personal history with be so important to them that they must spread their disease all over mylot now? And now a 'new' (and I use that term lightly, because I know who this user is) user named 'thepunisher' has shown up today to bolster C4U's nastiness.
I posted an entry on my blog some time ago about the inherent evil in some user names. Well visit mylot folks and look these two up. They have just proven the veracity of that blog entry! LOL
They also have posted on other entries here denying their need to have thier friends 'called in' to support them. Again I say - visit mylot folks and look these two up. They have just proven that position to be a lie.
They keep going on about how it's against the rules to return after a banning. Yet their own friends post about how they have done just that, not once, but many times.
So I guess the rules only apply to mylotters NOT on the friend's lists of the mylot cancers? lol
Thepunisher is a former user. Is that not a violation of the rules? Even if the punisher was never banned - isn't having duplicate accounts against the rules? So no matter what way you cut it, thepunisher is breaking the rules.
Coming4U is just as guilty. Don't the rules say that you can't flame another user - either current or former? Yes they do. I've read them over and over.
I recently deleted certain entries here that referenced my son because the comments from these people were so vile and disgusting that I was asked to do so. So instead of just letting sleeping dogs lie and let everyone get on and over it, Coming4U, and friends took THEIR vendetta to mylot are leaving posts, starting discussions and spreading their hatred all over mylot. And here I thought this kind of behaviour was against the rules? Oh, that's right, not for THEM, just for the rest of you.
Would you want these people on your friends list? If you were the object of such hatred would you be willing to let your kids join such a site without doing everything in your power to protect them and keep out of their way. Why should a perfectly good site like mylot be closed to you and yours, simply because of internet revenge cancers like this? And what's the point of all this now anyway. My son posted essentially a good-bye discussion and instead of just letting him go, he gets accused of not existing, not being who he is, not be ill, of NEVER having posted anything on mylot, and on and on ad infinitum because these revenge cancers are the ones who can't let go and get on with their lives. The sad thing is, it is my son who will suffer most from this because these cowards are trying to get at ME through him. So to them all I say, Liar, Liar Pants on Fire! LOL GROW UP and move on and leave the poor users at mylot alone and out of your imagined problems with me or my son. You are only showing your own sickness and meanness. You are doing nothing to convince anyone of your arguments. That's a dead horse. Please stop beating the poor thing and salvage SOME dignity for yourself and move on. Gezuz Murphy how many times am I going to have set the record straight?
I know!
I know!
As long as new and ugly internet cancer cells keep showing up and dragging me back to the fray.
Coming4U and friends - you should be ashamed of yourselves. As I said to someone recently "Do you kiss your mother with that mouth?" OMG I hope not! lol
Saturday, December 22, 2007
And How Old Are You Again?
This is a rant and I make no apologies for it. I stated on a previous blog that my anger - which initiated this blog back in June, would now be directed at the He/She Dragon, but recent posts have drawn someone else into the circle and he is the object of this rant. You all know him. He's posted on several of my blogs under his own name and others. He is one of the foulest mouthed and deluded mental midgets I have ever had the misfortune to come across. He's in his mid-thirties but talks like a meglomaniac twelve year old who just discovered the art of cursing. He gets an idea in his head and it becomes truth. He rejects real truth because - oh gee, he might have to change his opinion a bit. He picks and picks and picks on the weak and vulnerable and then has the gall to post on his friends threads as if he were the most liberal minded person in the world. The height of hypocrisy and such a joke to read.
He's right when he says I don't know everything about him. Of course I don't. But every post he makes reinforces what I do know - that he is foul, disgusting and a coward. I'm sure he has a good side - most people do. But does he show it to anyone but his friends on line? Not often, because if you post anything that 'excites his passion' (his excuse for using foul and disgusting language!) he'll lambast you into the next county, hide behind his self justified 'attitude' and never give you a break even when you prove him wrong over and over. He will call you foul names, make STUPID allegations about you and your life - of which he couldn't possibly know the realities of, and reject outright what you tell him. He will judge you as the worst of the worst if you disagree with him or tell him to put his money where his mouth is and stir up his friends to do the same. He will threaten you with all kinds of things, but hmmmmm.... except for running his mouth, never follows through.
He is a sickness on the net for many good people and a cancer that defies description.
Ladies and gentlemen, not in anger, but in TOTAL DISGUST, I give you, MaxPower!
Here is a sample of his 'work' just in case you missed his previous posts:
MaxPower1971
Wow I missed all this?? Damn notifications... The Stephane post is mine....It's my real first name...and to think she says she knows ALL about me lol....the dumb tw@t can't figure it out....I didn't even block my IP when going on her blog...ever...Thing is I responded so fast I forgot to switch the username because my default account name is Stephane lol And no worries about pissing me off Dragon...just let her rip lol!
MaxPower1971
Don't you just love the part where she says she owns a horse farm in Maui??When I laugh my head off about it she says it belongs to an ex boyfriend from like stoneage but its still under her name...YEEEEEAAAAAAAHHHHHHH OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK That &%&* is one sick puppy
Rated!
MaxPower1971
She can badmouth all she wants,more napalm for my thrower...her life must be REAL boring to fantasize herself in someone else's life!! If the FBI came,then they are not so good LMAO!!!I'm hard to hide with 4 pick up trucks,2 tandems and a dozer ROFL!!! I think I REALLY got to her when I called her and her friends Welfare cases.....can anyone say
BUSTED?
And here's one he just posted on another of my blog entries which more than proves everything I've said here. :
MaxPower1971 has left a new comment on the post "The Dragon's Blowing Smoke Again!":
"Hiding under a girl's name......OOOOOOOOOOOOOOKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
Who can't read now??
How is STEPHANE a girls name you twit???I happen to have a name other than my nethandle,and I use my name whenever I fuckin please you dumb doorknob.
pathetic....really....you're fishing for it bitch,and when it bites you'll be fuckin sorry you ever did mess with me....I told you,the only way you'll get rid of me is by taking off all the blogshit about me and my friends,other than that you are fucked fucked fucked.....
Oh and merry christmas you cunt ."
Nice huh? What a guy our passionate Max with the attitude is! LOL
Now again, to keep the record straight Max:
1. I don't check my IP's all the time. I know who you are when you post under your own name, and when you don't - for whatever reason, I don't jump to the conclusion it IS you. That wouldn't be fair to the poster in case it WAS someone else. But hey, thanks for the info STEPHANE!
2. I'm twenty years older than you Max, so yes I have a history from the 'stoneage'. But careful there Max, because one day you'll be 'stoneage' too! As for my farm in Mauii - don't you wish you were so lucky! lol Believe what you want, but unless you can prove otherwise, stop making stupid remarks. If you can that is. lol
3.And again I say, the truth is the truth - I don't have to badmouth you, just tell the truth. FYI - the truth isn't always pretty.
4. I never said the FBI visited you - where did you come up with that delusion? Again, running off at the mouth over your own lies.
5. And no, you didn't REALLY get to me when you called me and my friends welfare cases. How stupid are you? Whatever gave you the impression me or my friends were/are welfare cases? Or is that the worst thing you can think of, besides just being crude, to call someone? Again, you just show how ignorant you really are, how mean-minded, and how juvenile. And even if someone I knew was on welfare - how dare you make people in that position sound less than who and what they are as people. Careful yourself there Max - there but for the grace of God and a good divorce lawyer go you! Or anyone for that matter. Just how low can you go hmmmm? I'm sure you'll show me! lol
6. I'm not reading your discussions until someone sends me a link - like Stephanie - the she of the He/She Dragon. So it's YOUR friends feeding the 'dementia' of Max. And anyone reading what you write here would probably have a problem believing I was the demented one with the kind of drivel you leave on this blog. As for being angry at YOU Max - you still don't get it, do you? You DISGUST ME, you make me laugh, but you don't make me angry anymore. You are too insignificant to me to arouse such a strong emotion. But apparently you thrive on thinking otherwise, so keep on keeping on and I will keep on exposing YOUR dementia! lol
So there you are Ladies and Gentlemen. Exposing Max once again because he just can't keep his mouth in line or his head on straight.
Rant over for me ....... lol
UPDATE: This was sent to me from mylot. It's just too funny - MAX promoting my blog! LOL
And as for what Whiteheather is talking about - I honestly have no idea. I didn't
know Rose when I was a member there, and in fact didn't even meet her until I
started this blog. There has been some confusion over this for some time, but those
are the facts. She started emailing me after Riptide published my email address on
mylot and I visited her website and left some comments. As for Whiteheather - I
didn't know her at all on mylot other than through her friends. I honestly don't
recall ever posting on any of her discussions, or her on any of mine and for the
'oral cancer' discussion she is talking about - I haven't a clue!
Anyway - thanks for the promo Max. What a lovely Xmas gift! lol
whiteheather39
I wonder if this is the same Rosie I had a bunch of trouble with a few month back? She got two of my discussion deleted for (according to her) plaigarizing. She fancies herself as a wanna be writer. Is this the same person? However I actually got the one discussion about oral cancer reinstated and boy did that piss her and her friend fifty...something off big time I would like to check out what she is saying about you but I have forgotten her ID or blog name.
MaxPower1971
Im talkin about fifty...dont think Rose is her friend no more http://itsreallymefifty.blogspot.com/
And you are right Max - Rose and I do not communicate anymore. I wish her the best though. Contrary to popular belief - I DO NOT throw my friends away.
He's right when he says I don't know everything about him. Of course I don't. But every post he makes reinforces what I do know - that he is foul, disgusting and a coward. I'm sure he has a good side - most people do. But does he show it to anyone but his friends on line? Not often, because if you post anything that 'excites his passion' (his excuse for using foul and disgusting language!) he'll lambast you into the next county, hide behind his self justified 'attitude' and never give you a break even when you prove him wrong over and over. He will call you foul names, make STUPID allegations about you and your life - of which he couldn't possibly know the realities of, and reject outright what you tell him. He will judge you as the worst of the worst if you disagree with him or tell him to put his money where his mouth is and stir up his friends to do the same. He will threaten you with all kinds of things, but hmmmmm.... except for running his mouth, never follows through.
He is a sickness on the net for many good people and a cancer that defies description.
Ladies and gentlemen, not in anger, but in TOTAL DISGUST, I give you, MaxPower!
Here is a sample of his 'work' just in case you missed his previous posts:
MaxPower1971
Wow I missed all this?? Damn notifications... The Stephane post is mine....It's my real first name...and to think she says she knows ALL about me lol....the dumb tw@t can't figure it out....I didn't even block my IP when going on her blog...ever...Thing is I responded so fast I forgot to switch the username because my default account name is Stephane lol And no worries about pissing me off Dragon...just let her rip lol!
MaxPower1971
Don't you just love the part where she says she owns a horse farm in Maui??When I laugh my head off about it she says it belongs to an ex boyfriend from like stoneage but its still under her name...YEEEEEAAAAAAAHHHHHHH OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK That &%&* is one sick puppy
Rated!
MaxPower1971
She can badmouth all she wants,more napalm for my thrower...her life must be REAL boring to fantasize herself in someone else's life!! If the FBI came,then they are not so good LMAO!!!I'm hard to hide with 4 pick up trucks,2 tandems and a dozer ROFL!!! I think I REALLY got to her when I called her and her friends Welfare cases.....can anyone say
BUSTED?
And here's one he just posted on another of my blog entries which more than proves everything I've said here. :
MaxPower1971 has left a new comment on the post "The Dragon's Blowing Smoke Again!":
"Hiding under a girl's name......OOOOOOOOOOOOOOKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
Who can't read now??
How is STEPHANE a girls name you twit???I happen to have a name other than my nethandle,and I use my name whenever I fuckin please you dumb doorknob.
pathetic....really....you're fishing for it bitch,and when it bites you'll be fuckin sorry you ever did mess with me....I told you,the only way you'll get rid of me is by taking off all the blogshit about me and my friends,other than that you are fucked fucked fucked.....
Oh and merry christmas you cunt ."
Nice huh? What a guy our passionate Max with the attitude is! LOL
Now again, to keep the record straight Max:
1. I don't check my IP's all the time. I know who you are when you post under your own name, and when you don't - for whatever reason, I don't jump to the conclusion it IS you. That wouldn't be fair to the poster in case it WAS someone else. But hey, thanks for the info STEPHANE!
2. I'm twenty years older than you Max, so yes I have a history from the 'stoneage'. But careful there Max, because one day you'll be 'stoneage' too! As for my farm in Mauii - don't you wish you were so lucky! lol Believe what you want, but unless you can prove otherwise, stop making stupid remarks. If you can that is. lol
3.And again I say, the truth is the truth - I don't have to badmouth you, just tell the truth. FYI - the truth isn't always pretty.
4. I never said the FBI visited you - where did you come up with that delusion? Again, running off at the mouth over your own lies.
5. And no, you didn't REALLY get to me when you called me and my friends welfare cases. How stupid are you? Whatever gave you the impression me or my friends were/are welfare cases? Or is that the worst thing you can think of, besides just being crude, to call someone? Again, you just show how ignorant you really are, how mean-minded, and how juvenile. And even if someone I knew was on welfare - how dare you make people in that position sound less than who and what they are as people. Careful yourself there Max - there but for the grace of God and a good divorce lawyer go you! Or anyone for that matter. Just how low can you go hmmmm? I'm sure you'll show me! lol
6. I'm not reading your discussions until someone sends me a link - like Stephanie - the she of the He/She Dragon. So it's YOUR friends feeding the 'dementia' of Max. And anyone reading what you write here would probably have a problem believing I was the demented one with the kind of drivel you leave on this blog. As for being angry at YOU Max - you still don't get it, do you? You DISGUST ME, you make me laugh, but you don't make me angry anymore. You are too insignificant to me to arouse such a strong emotion. But apparently you thrive on thinking otherwise, so keep on keeping on and I will keep on exposing YOUR dementia! lol
So there you are Ladies and Gentlemen. Exposing Max once again because he just can't keep his mouth in line or his head on straight.
Rant over for me ....... lol
UPDATE: This was sent to me from mylot. It's just too funny - MAX promoting my blog! LOL
And as for what Whiteheather is talking about - I honestly have no idea. I didn't
know Rose when I was a member there, and in fact didn't even meet her until I
started this blog. There has been some confusion over this for some time, but those
are the facts. She started emailing me after Riptide published my email address on
mylot and I visited her website and left some comments. As for Whiteheather - I
didn't know her at all on mylot other than through her friends. I honestly don't
recall ever posting on any of her discussions, or her on any of mine and for the
'oral cancer' discussion she is talking about - I haven't a clue!
Anyway - thanks for the promo Max. What a lovely Xmas gift! lol
whiteheather39
I wonder if this is the same Rosie I had a bunch of trouble with a few month back? She got two of my discussion deleted for (according to her) plaigarizing. She fancies herself as a wanna be writer. Is this the same person? However I actually got the one discussion about oral cancer reinstated and boy did that piss her and her friend fifty...something off big time I would like to check out what she is saying about you but I have forgotten her ID or blog name.
MaxPower1971
Im talkin about fifty...dont think Rose is her friend no more http://itsreallymefifty.blogspot.com/
And you are right Max - Rose and I do not communicate anymore. I wish her the best though. Contrary to popular belief - I DO NOT throw my friends away.
Friday, December 14, 2007
Thoughts on the He/She Dragon
I was interested to find a comment from the he/she Dragon of mylot on my last blog entry. I wasn't sure (one never is) whether it was Steph or Bird who wrote the nasty little comment I blogged about, but Steph, bless her underhanded little heart cleared that up for me - and many others I'm sure. So she is still posting on mylot under her husband's name. Not legal for anyone else according to guidelines, but I guess being on the 'inside' now gives her certain priviledges. Lucky her! Just wish if she had nothing to fear from admin, that she would have the courage to identify herself. I know others who feel the same way. But then, the modis operendi of such people is to abuse and confuse.
Anyway - reading the spiteful little comments she left on a couple of my blog entries made something very clear to me. And sadly has brought out the worst in me.
What Steph and Bird did was unforgiveable, and crossed lines of common decency on many levels. They will never admit that - they will always blame me, and that's ok. But the fact remains that both of them DID step over those lines and many people, not just me, felt the fall out from it. I started this blog to identify and expose this kind of behaviour, but I now realize that that rationale was simply a mask of my true feelings and the real object of my deep rooted sense of betrayal and anger lies squarely at the feet of Steph and Bird. That they have found their 'true home' with other like minded 'cancers' was inevitable really, and I have had fun with the others. But it is time to stop involving them in my anger against Steph and Bird.
I will not apologize for anything I have said in these blog entries, or for my attitude against abusive and narrowminded thinking and expression. Unless they continue to make false and inflammatory statements, discussions, or topics about me that need addressing, I will leave them alone. You have my word on that, and though it won't mean anything to them, it does mean something to me and many others.
As for Steph and Bird - My anger will be directed against them as it should always have been, and though I would never stoop to their level of abuse and nastiness, I will no longer be polite or use humour. I will express exactly how I feel and if it sounds harsh - tough! They have brought this on themselves and I'm tired of their crap, their lies, their insinuations and their attempts to sabatoge my life. They may choose to believe whatever they wish about me, but I have yet to see them answer anything I've refuted, meet any challenge I've given, or prove to anyone that they deserve any consideration at all - except their 'dark side' friends who are of no account to me anyway. And I completely understand that the feeling is mutual.
You told Max, Steph that you thought it may be difficult to get to me. Trust me, you don't really want to try and if you do, you'll have no one to blame but yourself. So my best advice is to just leave off, drop me from your memory bank, stop trying to keep tabs on me, and get on with your sad little life. And fyi - no matter how you read this - there are NO threats here. I will not bother with you, but I won't back down either if you bring your particular brand of crap to my attention - which is what I meant when I said "you don't really want to try...".
Whew! I feel better now that I've finally put my anger where it belongs. I sincerely hope that this will be end of it, that you will leave my friends alone, me alone and just grow up and out of all of our lives.
UPDATE: This was comment sent to me from mylot made by Dragon. AGAIN, got his facts wrong as he says:
Quote:
"Amazing, simply amazing. I can't believe she thinks my wife gave her a link to something to get back at you. I don't know whether to laugh or vomit anymore. This has just gotten so old. "
Now here is what he is referring to and what was really said - and these quotes are from my blog itself so you can check them out:
whoeveryouwanttothinkiam said...
Since it bothers you so much,here's another post about you.http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1353249.aspx?p=2FYI no one has badmouthed you until you started on Max again.
December 18, 2007 10:24 AM
itsreallymefifty said...
whoeveryouwant... - Well thanks for the link. I'll add you to my folder of people who send me links!
So as you can see, a link was definitely given to me from one of Max's friends hiding under a phony name, but I DID NOT say anywhere that it was Steph who sent it. In fact I gave the credit to 'whoeveryouwanttothinkiam'. THEN I went on to quote the He/She Dragon as that blog entry WAS about them. But hey, if Bird wants to lay it Steph's feet by saying I said it was Steph - well then I can only conclude his knickers are in a twist because it WAS his wife posting under that name. LOL So I can understand why he's feeling 'sick'! LOL
Anyway - reading the spiteful little comments she left on a couple of my blog entries made something very clear to me. And sadly has brought out the worst in me.
What Steph and Bird did was unforgiveable, and crossed lines of common decency on many levels. They will never admit that - they will always blame me, and that's ok. But the fact remains that both of them DID step over those lines and many people, not just me, felt the fall out from it. I started this blog to identify and expose this kind of behaviour, but I now realize that that rationale was simply a mask of my true feelings and the real object of my deep rooted sense of betrayal and anger lies squarely at the feet of Steph and Bird. That they have found their 'true home' with other like minded 'cancers' was inevitable really, and I have had fun with the others. But it is time to stop involving them in my anger against Steph and Bird.
I will not apologize for anything I have said in these blog entries, or for my attitude against abusive and narrowminded thinking and expression. Unless they continue to make false and inflammatory statements, discussions, or topics about me that need addressing, I will leave them alone. You have my word on that, and though it won't mean anything to them, it does mean something to me and many others.
As for Steph and Bird - My anger will be directed against them as it should always have been, and though I would never stoop to their level of abuse and nastiness, I will no longer be polite or use humour. I will express exactly how I feel and if it sounds harsh - tough! They have brought this on themselves and I'm tired of their crap, their lies, their insinuations and their attempts to sabatoge my life. They may choose to believe whatever they wish about me, but I have yet to see them answer anything I've refuted, meet any challenge I've given, or prove to anyone that they deserve any consideration at all - except their 'dark side' friends who are of no account to me anyway. And I completely understand that the feeling is mutual.
You told Max, Steph that you thought it may be difficult to get to me. Trust me, you don't really want to try and if you do, you'll have no one to blame but yourself. So my best advice is to just leave off, drop me from your memory bank, stop trying to keep tabs on me, and get on with your sad little life. And fyi - no matter how you read this - there are NO threats here. I will not bother with you, but I won't back down either if you bring your particular brand of crap to my attention - which is what I meant when I said "you don't really want to try...".
Whew! I feel better now that I've finally put my anger where it belongs. I sincerely hope that this will be end of it, that you will leave my friends alone, me alone and just grow up and out of all of our lives.
UPDATE: This was comment sent to me from mylot made by Dragon. AGAIN, got his facts wrong as he says:
Quote:
"Amazing, simply amazing. I can't believe she thinks my wife gave her a link to something to get back at you. I don't know whether to laugh or vomit anymore. This has just gotten so old. "
Now here is what he is referring to and what was really said - and these quotes are from my blog itself so you can check them out:
whoeveryouwanttothinkiam said...
Since it bothers you so much,here's another post about you.http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1353249.aspx?p=2FYI no one has badmouthed you until you started on Max again.
December 18, 2007 10:24 AM
itsreallymefifty said...
whoeveryouwant... - Well thanks for the link. I'll add you to my folder of people who send me links!
So as you can see, a link was definitely given to me from one of Max's friends hiding under a phony name, but I DID NOT say anywhere that it was Steph who sent it. In fact I gave the credit to 'whoeveryouwanttothinkiam'. THEN I went on to quote the He/She Dragon as that blog entry WAS about them. But hey, if Bird wants to lay it Steph's feet by saying I said it was Steph - well then I can only conclude his knickers are in a twist because it WAS his wife posting under that name. LOL So I can understand why he's feeling 'sick'! LOL
Monday, December 10, 2007
The Dragon's Blowing Smoke Again!
It seems the Dragon of mylot is at it again, and again I must refute his/her outright baloney.
On a recent discussion (about this blog, don't you know! LOL) Dragon bemoans the fact that I had the nerve to devote an entry to poor Max, who has been so badly maligned here. (HA!)
He/she, (one never knows if it's really Dragonryder himself or his wife who is posting), has "believed for awhile now that she (that would be ME, lol) and her friends were still carrying on their bashing on their forum board, niftyfifty."
Now, the niftyfifty site hasn't been used by me or my friends ever since the top Fifty's became staff members of another site. I myself haven't even been to it in a long time. And NONE OF US EVER BASHED ANYONE THERE! That was the whole point of that site being set up. To get away from such behaviour and it was never indulged in.
So Dragon - if you have PROOF to the contrary I dare you to post it here - otherwise watch your mouth and be careful what you intimate about innocent people. That's just plain meanminded and unnecessary and FALSE.
He/she then goes on to say that he/she " didn't want to get wrapped in her (my) insanity again, and so thought it best to catch up on what she was blabbing this time...." WHAT? Explain that please. You may consider my blog insanity because it exposes you and yours as the mean minded cowards you are, but that speaks more to YOUR insantity than mine - and "catch up..".
Catch up on what? You make it sound like I've been all over the net babbling about you all, and that couldn't be further from the truth. So again, I say, POST PROOF or watch your mouth!
He/she then goes to be amazed that I am "still saying that someone stole her (my) identity." Well DUH! YOU (or someone you know!) DID! Signing someone up to websites using their personal information and not your own, without their knowledge is IDENTITY THEFT! Especially when those sign- ups result in financial loss. And the last time anyone checked - THAT'S ILLEGAL! Therefore - laws were broken. Again DUH! As for them being in jail - don't make ME laugh. People get away with this behaviour all the time, as on this scale, it's too petty to prosecute, but that still doesn't make it legal.
As for my having a lawyer - well wouldn't you if you were in my shoes? It just seemed a prudent move for me to make when Rip stepped over the line publishing my private emails, and the fallout began. I may be insane (by YOUR definition anyway) but that doesn't mean everyone agrees with you and retaining a lawyer was a dumb move. Sheesh, why does the thought that I've been smart enough to have legal advice scare everyone so much! lol
He/she then goes on to say "the FBI came to her house..." Well blah, blah right back at you, because I NEVER SAID THAT! It was your friends who said that I should get a visit from them. So again - get your bloody facts straight, you pontificating arm chair idiot! --- oops, sorry, broke my own rule about proper posting manners. My apologies, but you get the point.
And as for getting a phone call from Dr. Phil - again, you are so wrong. I got the call alright. It was after I'd been signed up to a match making site. My husband was sitting right there when the call came, and I have it recorded. So google Dr. Phil and find the sites he's associated with and then come back and call me a liar again. I dare you.
But the most dense part of Dragon's smoke is this: "It would be nice to see you (Max) teach her a lesson, and if you come up with a way or two, I do hope you'll alert me so I can watch the fun".
Nice huh? Seems going over to the dark side has removed any vestige of fair play or niceness from this insignificant he/she Dragon.
I hope you read this Dragon. You have proven once again, that I was right to distrust you and right in everything I've ever posted on this blog about you and your friends.
I don't post about any of you anywhere else and would dearly love to stop posting about you here, but as I've said, every time you tell a lie I will expose it.
Put THAT in your pipe and smoke it!
UPDATE: Well readers it seems that the Dragon has decided to leave mylot. Champagne all around! lol Anyway, the Dragon posts a good bye discussion - too funny considering how against this kind of thing he/she was in the past, but regardless, post one he/she did. Now, the Dragon could have been the fine upstanding citizen he/she claims to be and just kept to the present and admitted that they found Role Playing online (ROFL) more interesting these days than mylot and therefore wouldn't be around the site much anymore. But NOOOOOOOO he/she had to stick the knife into yours truly one more time. And here are the quotes:
"dragonryder
1 day ago
With all that you've dealt with here, I can't believe you've never considered leaving. I considered starting over once, but I wasn't going to give a certain someone the satisfaction. I am definitely keeping the account open. Who knows, I might pop in once in awhile to comment to other people's discussions, but I doubt I'll ever start anymore. Yes I know where to find you, and I'm sorry I've been bad about staying in touch. I think it's the winter blues. I am glad we are friends too."
"dragonryder
11 hours ago
Oh that started last year in May. My reasons for leaving now are just being bored, and not wanting to do anything online that requires much thinking and/or emotion. I am more into my role playing game now. The person from before is not a member now, that I know of. She got banned. She has friends here though, but they don't worry me. Good luck with your time here, and thanks for being a friend."
These two comments were given to two separate people. So it seems that all along Dragon has been a role player and has now come out of the closet about it and mylot suffers another loss!
Rather makes you wonder doesn't it? LOL
But he/she says the account will stay open, so another bid for sympathy will be negated in the future with a return to mylot. And so it goes, and so it goes. This group has posted more good-bye discussions that anyone else and it just makes me ROFL to be sent another one. So the group gets whittled down a little more and that can only be good for mylot. Bye bye Dragon. Have fun in your new virtual life.
On a recent discussion (about this blog, don't you know! LOL) Dragon bemoans the fact that I had the nerve to devote an entry to poor Max, who has been so badly maligned here. (HA!)
He/she, (one never knows if it's really Dragonryder himself or his wife who is posting), has "believed for awhile now that she (that would be ME, lol) and her friends were still carrying on their bashing on their forum board, niftyfifty."
Now, the niftyfifty site hasn't been used by me or my friends ever since the top Fifty's became staff members of another site. I myself haven't even been to it in a long time. And NONE OF US EVER BASHED ANYONE THERE! That was the whole point of that site being set up. To get away from such behaviour and it was never indulged in.
So Dragon - if you have PROOF to the contrary I dare you to post it here - otherwise watch your mouth and be careful what you intimate about innocent people. That's just plain meanminded and unnecessary and FALSE.
He/she then goes on to say that he/she " didn't want to get wrapped in her (my) insanity again, and so thought it best to catch up on what she was blabbing this time...." WHAT? Explain that please. You may consider my blog insanity because it exposes you and yours as the mean minded cowards you are, but that speaks more to YOUR insantity than mine - and "catch up..".
Catch up on what? You make it sound like I've been all over the net babbling about you all, and that couldn't be further from the truth. So again, I say, POST PROOF or watch your mouth!
He/she then goes to be amazed that I am "still saying that someone stole her (my) identity." Well DUH! YOU (or someone you know!) DID! Signing someone up to websites using their personal information and not your own, without their knowledge is IDENTITY THEFT! Especially when those sign- ups result in financial loss. And the last time anyone checked - THAT'S ILLEGAL! Therefore - laws were broken. Again DUH! As for them being in jail - don't make ME laugh. People get away with this behaviour all the time, as on this scale, it's too petty to prosecute, but that still doesn't make it legal.
As for my having a lawyer - well wouldn't you if you were in my shoes? It just seemed a prudent move for me to make when Rip stepped over the line publishing my private emails, and the fallout began. I may be insane (by YOUR definition anyway) but that doesn't mean everyone agrees with you and retaining a lawyer was a dumb move. Sheesh, why does the thought that I've been smart enough to have legal advice scare everyone so much! lol
He/she then goes on to say "the FBI came to her house..." Well blah, blah right back at you, because I NEVER SAID THAT! It was your friends who said that I should get a visit from them. So again - get your bloody facts straight, you pontificating arm chair idiot! --- oops, sorry, broke my own rule about proper posting manners. My apologies, but you get the point.
And as for getting a phone call from Dr. Phil - again, you are so wrong. I got the call alright. It was after I'd been signed up to a match making site. My husband was sitting right there when the call came, and I have it recorded. So google Dr. Phil and find the sites he's associated with and then come back and call me a liar again. I dare you.
But the most dense part of Dragon's smoke is this: "It would be nice to see you (Max) teach her a lesson, and if you come up with a way or two, I do hope you'll alert me so I can watch the fun".
Nice huh? Seems going over to the dark side has removed any vestige of fair play or niceness from this insignificant he/she Dragon.
I hope you read this Dragon. You have proven once again, that I was right to distrust you and right in everything I've ever posted on this blog about you and your friends.
I don't post about any of you anywhere else and would dearly love to stop posting about you here, but as I've said, every time you tell a lie I will expose it.
Put THAT in your pipe and smoke it!
UPDATE: Well readers it seems that the Dragon has decided to leave mylot. Champagne all around! lol Anyway, the Dragon posts a good bye discussion - too funny considering how against this kind of thing he/she was in the past, but regardless, post one he/she did. Now, the Dragon could have been the fine upstanding citizen he/she claims to be and just kept to the present and admitted that they found Role Playing online (ROFL) more interesting these days than mylot and therefore wouldn't be around the site much anymore. But NOOOOOOOO he/she had to stick the knife into yours truly one more time. And here are the quotes:
"dragonryder
1 day ago
With all that you've dealt with here, I can't believe you've never considered leaving. I considered starting over once, but I wasn't going to give a certain someone the satisfaction. I am definitely keeping the account open. Who knows, I might pop in once in awhile to comment to other people's discussions, but I doubt I'll ever start anymore. Yes I know where to find you, and I'm sorry I've been bad about staying in touch. I think it's the winter blues. I am glad we are friends too."
"dragonryder
11 hours ago
Oh that started last year in May. My reasons for leaving now are just being bored, and not wanting to do anything online that requires much thinking and/or emotion. I am more into my role playing game now. The person from before is not a member now, that I know of. She got banned. She has friends here though, but they don't worry me. Good luck with your time here, and thanks for being a friend."
These two comments were given to two separate people. So it seems that all along Dragon has been a role player and has now come out of the closet about it and mylot suffers another loss!
Rather makes you wonder doesn't it? LOL
But he/she says the account will stay open, so another bid for sympathy will be negated in the future with a return to mylot. And so it goes, and so it goes. This group has posted more good-bye discussions that anyone else and it just makes me ROFL to be sent another one. So the group gets whittled down a little more and that can only be good for mylot. Bye bye Dragon. Have fun in your new virtual life.
Friday, December 7, 2007
Cancer Cell Definitions
Below are some new words/definitions that Mensa students were asked to come up with. Every year they are issued the challenge of finding a word, removing, adding or changing ONE letter of it and then writing a new definition for their new word. These are some of them and I have chosen the ones from the list that could SOOOO easily apply to so many of the Internet Cancer Cells I write about. Have fun - and see if any apply to you! lol And read the words carefully so you see where the change was made.
Ignoranus: A person who's both stupid and an asshole.
Reintarnation: Coming back to life as a hillbilly.
Bozone (n.): The substance surrounding stupid people that stops bright ideas from penetrating. The bozone layer, unfortunately, shows little sign of breaking down in the near future.
Sarchasm: The gulf between the author of sarcastic wit and the person who doesn't get it.
Karmageddon: It's when everybody is sending off all these really bad vibes, and then the Earth explodes, and it's a serious bummer.
Glibido: All talk and no action.
Dopeler effect: The tendency of stupid ideas to seem smarter when they come at you rapidly.
Personally, I really like Bozone! lol SOOOO true, especially for Internet Cancer Cells.
Ignoranus: A person who's both stupid and an asshole.
Reintarnation: Coming back to life as a hillbilly.
Bozone (n.): The substance surrounding stupid people that stops bright ideas from penetrating. The bozone layer, unfortunately, shows little sign of breaking down in the near future.
Sarchasm: The gulf between the author of sarcastic wit and the person who doesn't get it.
Karmageddon: It's when everybody is sending off all these really bad vibes, and then the Earth explodes, and it's a serious bummer.
Glibido: All talk and no action.
Dopeler effect: The tendency of stupid ideas to seem smarter when they come at you rapidly.
Personally, I really like Bozone! lol SOOOO true, especially for Internet Cancer Cells.
Monday, December 3, 2007
Some 'Net Manners for Internet Cancer Cells
Ladies and Gentlemen - and I use those terms loosely as the people I am appealing to here, have already proven that they are NOT ladies and gentlemen, or there would be no need for this entry.
Anyone who spends any time on the net reading blogs, posting on sites etc., expects a certain amount of respect for their opinions and politeness in replies to their posts. In 'real life' they would not put up with rudeness, so why should they on the more impersonal net?
So I have come up with a concise list of 'Net Manners' that EVERYONE who posts should pay attention to and exercise. If more ladylike and gentlemenly behaviour was exercised, my entire blog wouldn't be necessary! lol I don't expect that people who exhibit hard core 'internet cancer' behaviour to change or even pay attention, but I do hope that those of you who have been on the receiving end of these people, will take a lesson from the following list and improve your own experience on the net.
1. Never assume! Anything.
No reading between the lines and assuming a meaning that isn't clearly stated. If you
question the meaning - ask politely for clarification. Remember that you can't possibly know
everything about the poster and to assume you know enough, is to make an 'ass(of) u (&) me'.
2. Never attack! Anyone.
If you disagree with the post - be polite about stating your opinion. If you already have a
negative 'relationship' with the poster - take your negativity elsewhere or post in a
reasonable manner.
3. Don't make it personal. Ever.
Making personal comments about a poster's habits, family or subjects NOT referenced in the
post is low, cruel, and mean minded. But more than that - it's just plain childish and makes
you look foolish.
4. Don't use foul language. Ever.
There is NEVER a need to make your point using crude and demeaning language. It reflects
worse on you than on the person you are attacking. It also only serves to defeat your
purpose.
5. If you must argue - stick to the rules of proper debating.
Be sure of your facts and don't 'spin' the other person's comments to fit your twisted view.
6. Always pretend that everything you say and type is going to be read by your mother!
Would you speak to your mother in this manner? No? Then show the same respect to others.
These are all pretty basic and there is very little original thought contained in them. And that's why they are so important. Because they are basic, easily recognized as viable, and therefore shouldn't be all that difficult to implement.
My comment box says, "If you disagree but must reply, be nice". I don't want to discourage people from posting. I simply demand that they show the same respect they demand for themselves. I hope you will too.
Anyone who spends any time on the net reading blogs, posting on sites etc., expects a certain amount of respect for their opinions and politeness in replies to their posts. In 'real life' they would not put up with rudeness, so why should they on the more impersonal net?
So I have come up with a concise list of 'Net Manners' that EVERYONE who posts should pay attention to and exercise. If more ladylike and gentlemenly behaviour was exercised, my entire blog wouldn't be necessary! lol I don't expect that people who exhibit hard core 'internet cancer' behaviour to change or even pay attention, but I do hope that those of you who have been on the receiving end of these people, will take a lesson from the following list and improve your own experience on the net.
1. Never assume! Anything.
No reading between the lines and assuming a meaning that isn't clearly stated. If you
question the meaning - ask politely for clarification. Remember that you can't possibly know
everything about the poster and to assume you know enough, is to make an 'ass(of) u (&) me'.
2. Never attack! Anyone.
If you disagree with the post - be polite about stating your opinion. If you already have a
negative 'relationship' with the poster - take your negativity elsewhere or post in a
reasonable manner.
3. Don't make it personal. Ever.
Making personal comments about a poster's habits, family or subjects NOT referenced in the
post is low, cruel, and mean minded. But more than that - it's just plain childish and makes
you look foolish.
4. Don't use foul language. Ever.
There is NEVER a need to make your point using crude and demeaning language. It reflects
worse on you than on the person you are attacking. It also only serves to defeat your
purpose.
5. If you must argue - stick to the rules of proper debating.
Be sure of your facts and don't 'spin' the other person's comments to fit your twisted view.
6. Always pretend that everything you say and type is going to be read by your mother!
Would you speak to your mother in this manner? No? Then show the same respect to others.
These are all pretty basic and there is very little original thought contained in them. And that's why they are so important. Because they are basic, easily recognized as viable, and therefore shouldn't be all that difficult to implement.
My comment box says, "If you disagree but must reply, be nice". I don't want to discourage people from posting. I simply demand that they show the same respect they demand for themselves. I hope you will too.
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